#BE SPECIFIC

[loversinthebodega]

MANIFESTING CHALLENGE : MAGNETIZE SOMETHING INTO YOUR LIFE IN 48HRS

[mihai-florescu]

So painful that most shipping is for fun and not analysing the wonderful canon dynamics. You can ship rinne amagi with whoever you like! However if it isn't niki I will clench my fists and grit my teeth and imagine a life where I don't know these people. But you can do whatever you want hehe ^_^

(Nothing happened btw I was just thinking about it and rinniki are who I'm the most passionate about)

This is actually something ive talked about with an irl friend a lottt, i think there comes a time in everyone's fandom experience where they realise they dont really fuck with shipping culture. But thats too vague to say... because shipping is a vague term in itself? Would you say you ship relationships supported by canon or would you just say you read the canon and thats it...

I feel like shipping mean something different for everyone and that's why tension and disagreements can arise, especially if you center your media consumption around the fast dopamine hit of ship fanfics or fix it fics (prioritizing your entertainment rather than the themes of the story itself. Theres something to be said about the reason behind various media's creation too but i think that strays further from your ask). Im not against playing with dynamics and making scenarios and analyzing the dynamic between 2 characters with yaoi goggles on, god knows i have my rarepairs too & I love imagination exercises. Even involving one side of my otps with other characters im willing to entertain various ideas as long as we're on the same page that it's not, like, endgame or real.

But i cannot take certain fandom behaviors seriously, youve seen my recent tweets i think. Your reaction to pretend they dont exist is real and true and probably way more helpful in the long run than giving them attention. Again just like i said about hating, its good to keep a core of people who understand the media in a way you also agree, and talk with them. Not an echo chamber necessarily, that can get toxic real quick, but people whose minds you trust even when they dont see eye to eye with you.

[rabbits-of-negative-euphoria]

as long as we're on the subject, I have a little tip for traditional guys who are online dating (which I guess could apply to women as well): don't tell me you're a trad, masculine man. describe to me the values you hold which make you a trad, masculine man. because the words "trad" and "masculine" don't mean much anymore.

I don't know if I'm talking to a man who plans to sacrificially love his wife as Christ loves the church, or a man who thinks his wife was created to serve him and "gets to be a part of" his life (actual words I've seen an allegedly trad man use).

Men operate a lot more in the world of generalities than women do, and women, being the weaker sex, can't rely on generalities to make decisions that render them vulnerable. Describe yourself and your values as individual, don't stick yourself into a grouping too vague to be helpful.

“Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren't.” Margaret Thatcher

[somber-sapphic]

Sicktember Prompts!

Hello all! Many of you know that Sicktember is coming up and I plan to write for it! Please send me in your ideas for parings and I will do my best to keep everyone happy (as well as including a few of my own). Paring's that I personally chose will be yellow others will be in pink :)

Just a heads up that I will be switching out some with the alt. prompts provided, I will make those ones green. Please send in your paring's with specific sickies!!

original prompt list

Prompts:

1. Hopelessly Bad at Self-Care - WandaNat x Reader, Sick Nat and Reader

2. Quest for a Cure - Sick Natasha x Reader

3. "What happened to your phenomenal immune system, huh?" - Sick Lena x Reader

4. Hiding an Illness - Wandanat x Sick Reader

5. Preventative Measures (Not Taken) - Wandanat x Sick Reader

6. Sick and Injured - Wandanat x Reader, Sick Wanda

7. “You’re a Jerk When You’re Sick” - JJ x Sick Emily

8. Persistent Fever - Natasha x Sick Reader

9. White Coat Syndrome - Carina x Sick Reader

10. “The only place we’re going is to the pharmacy” - Wanda x Sick Reader

11. Beginner’s Guide to Faking Sick - Natasha x Sick Reader

12. Fuzzy Socks - Kara x Sick Lena

13. “I’m so sorry” - Wandanat x Sick Reader

14. ‘‘I shouldn’t be worried about you, but for some reason I am’’ - Wanda x Sick Natasha

15. Sick in an Inconvenient Place - Jemily x Reader, Sick Reader

16. Consulting the Internet/Web MD - Wandanat x Sick Reader

17. Magical Remedy/Healing Potion - Natasha x Sick Reader

18. “Wear Your Coat, You’ll Catch a Cold” - Sick Natasha x Reader

19. Curled Up With a Pet - Calzona, Sick Callie

20. Cramping Pain - Wandanat x Reader, Sick Nat

21. "But if you stay, you'll get sick too" - Wandanat x Sick Reader

22. Terms of Endearment/Nicknames - Natasha x Sick Reader

23. Coughing Fit - Natasha x Sick Wanda

24. “Did you just sneeze?” - Yelena x Sick Reader

25. Confused/Disoriented - Wandanat x Sick Reader

26. “I Could Really Use a Hug Right About Now” - Sick Wanda x Reader

27. Uncooperative Patient - Marina x Reader, Sick Carina

28. “I should have stayed home” - Sick Natasha x Reader

29. Side Effects/Adverse Reaction - Wandanat x Sick Natasha

30. Patient 0 - Open!!

HUUUUGEEE thanks to @sicktember for these amazing prompts!!

[blackcatanna]

Just read a news article referring to "Married at First Sight" as a "social experiment". It's annoying enough when these reality shows like Love is Blind pretend to be "experiments" rather than heavily produced entertainment; let's not validate that delusion...

[thesmilercrew]

Whats with the eye??

"Uh......witch one?....all of us are eyes.... :p"

[coughloop]

y did i see u in the notes of a terf post girlie…

since we're throwing around baseless accusations why were you in the notes of a terf post, girlie?

[cute-girls-from-vns-anime-manga]

nonono chachamaru ashikage

('・ω・)つ旦 by 名瀬

[mbrainspaz]

The fam were always so annoyed when I’d ask them to clarify plan details. Like sorry, not my fault I immediately considered 28 different ways to interpret your vague itinerary. “Call when you are ready.” Ready for what??? A heart to heart chat? A travel planning sesh? Or just when I get off work and can focus?

[girlrry]

every time i read one of the books that harry said changed his life i get scared

[lockoutkey]

Hello?????

coming from you and the current state of my blog this could mean so much

[fandomsoda]

🦋If you get this, answer with 3 facts about yourself and send it to the last 7 blogs in your notifications, anonymously or not! Let's get to know the person behind the blog🦋 :)

Ask the questions yourself, chain mail

[thatdamnokie]

if you give people vague platitudes instead of concrete advice and they ask you for a specific example and you get mad instead of just explaining that dumbass thing you said, congrats you’re part of the problem!

[5-fuxking-unicorns]

phone blowing up over andrew dismukes spiderman and natasha lyonne furry

[mafaldaknows]

A high-quality life requires high-quality choices and actions